Don’t worry if someone you like has not been online for a while. Anyone with a profile on the site wants to be contacted, even if their status indicates they have not been online in a few months. Then log back in regularly to see responses and look for more members. In your Outbox, you will see an envelope next to each message you have sent. You can only tell if messages to premium members have been read. If this does not correct the problem, submit a support ticket. REF To block and/or report a member who has sent you a message, follow these steps: If you set notifications, but do not receive any email notifications, you should review your email preference settings. I registered but never received a confirmation email! You will need to update/correct your profile in accordance with our terms of service.
So these messages will always have the envelope next to them.
REF Once you find some members who interest you, view their profiles and send them flirts.
REF To search for members near you, change your search settings using the ADVANCED SEARCH FILTER feature.
To start a chat: When you send a chat to a member that is online, Curves sends an immediate (real time) email notification to that member’s personal email address (for example, their Yahoo, Hotmail, Gmail, etc) notifying them they have an invite to chat.
You can pick a flirt message that feels appropriate. REF Once you find a member you’d like to meet, you can initiate a chat with them.